posted on August 3, 2015

Dating 101: What They didn’t Teach You in the Classroom


Dating 101: What They Didn’t Teach You in the Classroom; by Riana Milne

It’s amazing to me that schools never teach the importance of how to find an ideal, loving partner; or teach how to successfully have a lifetime relationship. You would think in my Master’s Program in Counseling Psychology, they would have done so. It wasn’t until I took over 2.5 years of training in Coaching for Singles and Couples at RCI (Relationship Coaching Institute) and did over 2 years of research reading over 225 books for my own book, LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve did I get the answers I personally was looking for.

There are definitely Secrets to Finding & Having the Emotionally, Evolved Relationship You Deserve.  I am about to Launch – LADIES NIGHT – in the Delray Beach, FL area for local SINGLE WOMEN who want to start learning what to do – and NOT to do – to be more Successful in Dating to find “The One.” This is for those who keep falling in love with toxic partners who break your heart – and want to find a dedicated, emotionally healthy partner who is able and ready to commit to a relationship.

If you have tried everything (Tinder, online dating, meet-up groups, the bars and clubs, or doing blind dates set up by concerned family and friends) and are frustrated with the process; or, if you’re of the age where you are ready for marriage and a family, and you’re sick of spending the Holidays alone, going on dead-end dates, or you don’t want to waste any more time repeating what hasn’t worked – you should attend this series of meetings. Yes, your clock is ticking; so you need to know what to do, and you can’t change what you don’t understand.

With Christmas, Hanukkah, New Year’s Eve and Valentines Day all occurring within the next few months – NOW is the time to find out exactly HOW to Attract the Partner of your Dreams; at the Ladies Night! Social & Educational Events. Come meet cool ladies who desire to meet more lady friends to hang out with, as well as process this information. These will be your “Wing Women!”

I know. I’ve lived through the pain and heartache of being with several toxic partners and I understand the sense of frustration and the deep emotional longing to have true love and a relationship that lasts. Since I have done my research, I know EXACTLY what works and what doesn’t. Spiritually, I know the world is abundant, and there are plenty of great men and women who want a loving, exclusive relationships. So how do you find them?

Attend my Ladies Night! Educational Coaching & Social Night Out for Women Only. There will be a 1-hour seminar (register with me on the contact pop-up form at www.RianaMilne.com) then I will do some Q &A; and after, we will do things to get to know each other more socially. I will go into many tips and help you understand your blocks in Life and Love; and teach you what you need to do to start immediately to find your amazing partner, without having to lose yourself.

You can finally stop feeling anxious and fearful about dating, and actually, have fun – all leading to finding your fabulous soulmate.

Sound Good? Join me! Three events will be held between now and 2/14 – dates and times to be announced soon! SPACE IS LIMITED and I am inviting my Local FB Friends – FIRST! Just register, and I will send you the details asap.

You are NOT Alone this Holiday Season – I am here to give you the Edge & Education you Need to Attract Love into your Life!

For the purpose of this article, I want to share a few basic tips to get you started:

  • Get off Tinder or any other “instant hook up” site. This is NOT dating, and it only leads to cheap sexual encounters that make you feel lousy about yourself. Online dating can be very successful, but there is an art to writing the perfect profile, choosing the best photos to post, and learning how to choose a great person to date. You are not looking for a lot of responses, only the right ones.
  • Look at dating as a cool way to meet new people – that’s all. Take things light – if you look at every date as “the One” you put too much pressure on yourself and your date. It’s imperative to build up a trusting friendship before really falling in love – in the right way. The wrong way is to impulsively build a relationship because of “chemistry” which often leads to “lust blindness.” If you are looking for a lasting relationship, chemistry is not the important factor. Learn to look deeper into the soul and character of a person, and not only at their outside appearance.
  • However, do dress attractively at all times, if you are looking to meet “the One.” Both men and women are still visual creatures, and a great first impression is essential. You will probably meet that person when you least expect it, so always be ready. This will lead you to feeling confident about yourself, and putting out positive energy to all those you meet. On a daily basis, share “your light” with everyone you see – that easy-going, fun-loving, kind energy that people love and are attracted to. By saying hello to everyone, everywhere, you just may meet “the One.” It worked for me! Be open to conversing with everyone who approaches to speak with you. Show interest, you just never know! If they are not “the One” they may have a friend who is perfect for you.
  • Dating is a numbers game. Keep dating many suitors until you are asked to date exclusively. The gentleman should ask for this, as his “caveman brain” subconsciously feels he needs to win you from the others. Don’t call him or text early on – he must pursue you to feel the urge for something more exclusive. If you are sexual early on in meeting, the challenge for him is done, and he often loses interest. I know it sounds old-fashioned, but guess what, it works. Respect yourself more and STOP giving yourself away intimately before a relationship is well established (2-3 months of regular dating) – and this goes for ALL ages.

If you need personal help, just sign up through Contact Me to apply for a Free Life & Love Discovery Session; and I will email you back details needed. I want you to stop wasting time, money and energy with serial dating or with a toxic partner. It’s time to get your personal life to a point of amazing, while at the same time, learning the EXACT skills you need to find “The One.” It has become my purpose to help you and my clients to Have the Life they Desire the Love they Deserve!

Riana Mine, MA, is a Certified, Global Relationship, Love & Life Coach, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Cert. Clinical Trauma & Addictions Professional at Therapy by the Sea; in Palm Beach Co, FL. Her free App: My Relationship Coach offers more articles and her 5-Star rated, #1 Best Selling book, LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve  and it’s sister book, LIVE Beyond Your Dreamsfrom Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose and Success, addresses relationships with yourself and others. To learn more about Riana’s Relationship, Life or Love Coaching programs go to Riana’s website, www.RianaMilne.com or email RianaMilne@gmail.com.  For information on Global Virtual Coaching: Support@LifeandLoveTrainingAcademy.com Worldwide Coaching Phone: (201) 281-7887. FB: coachrianamilne.  #LoveCoach, #LifeCoach  #RelationshipCoach #SinglesCoach #Terriana Milne




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