If you’re sick and tired of feeling lonely, being depressed, and feeling anxious about dating all the wrong people, this is for you…

At Last: Discover How to STOP Making the Same “Mistakes” in Your Love Relationships! You CAN Attract the Partner of Your Dreams.

It’s time to have the love (and life!) you deserve.


From the Desk of Riana Milne

Please click the link Below to watch the 40-minute educational video of How to Attract Emotionally Healthy Love - and to Understand Why 9 out of 10 Singles Struggle in Life & Love.

Singles Self-Study Dating to Mating Coaching Program


Dear Single Friend:

Does this sound familiar?

  • Your friends are all in relationships … and you’re envious. You don’t want to settle for just anybody, but you’re so tired of being alone!
  • This isn’t where you thought you’d be in life at this point. You thought by now you’d have found the love of your life, gotten married, had babies … you thought you’d be experiencing the joy of being part of a happy family.

OR -

  • You thought for sure you would be “with your person” to spend retirement years and the rest of your life with. You never thought you would be growing older – alone.
  • You can find dates, sure—with all the wrong people! You can see the train wreck coming a mile away, but you consistently find yourself choosing the same type, and the trains just keep on coming.
  • Your dating experience is severely undermining your confidence, self-esteem, and even body image. You’re finding yourself falling back on that “What’s wrong with me?” mindset, and you really can’t figure out what you’re doing “wrong.”

Deep breath.

It’s not your fault you’ve been attracting the wrong people. And it’s certainly not your fault if you’ve been backing off dating altogether, even isolating yourself, because you’d rather be lonely than miserable – or afraid of dating someone who could break your heart.

And I promise you, I’m not just saying that! It’s really not your fault. (I said it again because I really want you to let it sink in.)

Here’s the thing: when you were a child, young and innocent, you may have experienced things that changed you—that traumatized you. These early traumas are now shaping how you view the world as an adult (yes, even if right now you’re thinking “But I didn’t experience trauma”).

Research shows that close to 90% of the population experienced at least one childhood trauma (and there are over 10 major trauma categories!), so know that you are definitely not alone in this struggle.

Even better yet - Help is here!

Riana's program is very inviting and conversational. While watching her videos, I feel she is in my living room giving me one on one attention and much of what she's teaching is absolutely spot on advice and guidance that I need to hear. The written content is easy to understand and assimilate. Solid, real world education is what she offers. She provides a wealth of information among her books, videos, television programming, workbooks and rich life experience! And, things are going great with the man I am dating!

Nikki (50s) - Online Student


Intimate relationships with men had been my least successful events in my life - even though I have learned a lot from the three marriages I had over the years. This amazing course has prepared me for this next relationship that is coming my way - that I know!

Monika (70s)

I’m Coach Riana Milne.

And I’ve been where you are.

I too have suffered with some Childhood Emotional Traumas. My mother was tough, demanding, critical, and often angry because my Dad was rarely home due to his work; which supported our family. This left her to raise 5 children mostly on her own.

Then came that fateful day, when I was just ten years old, and my brother and I discovered a secret footlocker in my father’s office. We thought we’d found a Treasure Chest (young children have a creative imagination!) … until we pried it open.

We discovered my father’s secret life of porn, including photos and letters from his mistress we didn’t know that he had.

My brother and I held that terrible secret for the next eighteen years. Although I truly loved and admired my Dad, this secret was a horrible thing for a young daughter to see – and to carry. My brother and I realized we were responsible for keeping our family together, by never revealing what we knew to anyone!

Then, as my father was dying, his mistress reappeared in our life. My brother and I knew exactly who she was to him, and THAT trauma reinforced the trauma I experienced years before.

My story isn’t unique. In fact, the majority of adults experience some form of childhood trauma or an adverse childhood event.

This impacted me – unconsciously – so I ended up choosing a husband almost exactly like my father. He was handsome, charming, socially outgoing (everyone loved him!), confident and successful … and he had a secret life. His also included a porn addiction and a mistress. I ended that marriage with an annulment once his secret was discovered.

After that, I began to research how the events of childhood shape our experiences as adults, especially when it comes to our intimate relationships. And that research led me to my understanding of how Adverse Childhood Events re-emerge as subconscious emotional triggers throughout our lives; especially with a Partner we love.

In other words, our subconscious chooses and attracts partners for us that reinforce what we have experienced as children.

No wonder I ended up subconsciously choosing men who were just like my Dad! I was always able to attract men into my life, but I was subconsciously attracting the WRONG type of man. I noticed a pattern in all the men I dated: they had severe Childhood Trauma and they didn’t know about their Unconscious Emotional Triggers. They also didn’t do anything to fix the toxic patterns in their life.

Even though I had a triple Master’s Degree in Clinical & Counseling Psychology, this topic was never discussed in any of my classes or continuing education as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Even as a Licensed Alcohol & Drug Addiction Counselor, I never heard this information!

In fact, none of my early psychology education taught me about Childhood Trauma, Unconscious Emotional Triggers, and how it impacts an adult in life & love!

I finally decided to figure out for myself how to break the toxic cycle of “hurtful love”, so I could finally create for myself a loving relationship that was emotionally healthy, consciously evolved, supportive, and fulfilling.

And after TONS of research and studying, I discovered Ten common Adverse Childhood Events that SO many people suffer from, and I made it my mission to help myself and my clients heal their past traumas, so we can stop the painful cycle of Toxic, Codependent love, and broken relationships.

Now I’m also a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional along with being a Global, Certified Life, Dating & Relationship Coach for Singles & Couples; so I can take this message of healing, hope, and transformation to people around the world.

I’m determined to educate those who are suffering in love and other areas of life so that they can turn their lives around to be fearless, confident, and have a positive mindset for success. And also; to learn the EXACT skills needed to attract an emotionally healthy partner into your life.

You CAN have a meaningful, loving, awesome relationship! Man or woman, gay or straight, young or old, it doesn’t matter!

The key is to decide for yourself that you are tired of experiencing the same patterns in your life that keep you stuck. When you do, you can commit to changing those patterns.

I just suggest – you do it sooner than later – why wait and continue to feel miserable?

It all starts with identifying and healing your Adverse Childhood Events, so you can stop inadvertently sabotaging your love relationships, and finally experience the intimate connection you desire and deserve.


The Mastery Level - Dating to Mating Life & Love Transformation Self-Study Program for Singles

I’ve carefully designed this self-study training to give you everything you need to identify and release any and all the traumas you’ve experienced in your life. When you do, you’ll become more in touch with your emotions, letting go of your negative mindset, anxious or depressive thoughts and fears, and emotional triggered responses with ease.

Moreover, you’ll reconnect with yourself, becoming clear on exactly who you are and what you want in life, and from a love relationship, so you can attract your perfect partner, and go from single to committed (without repeating mistakes from the past!).

We start with identifying and changing any areas of your life you want improved. Follow the directions closely to be able to feel like a Successful Single before you start dating! Then, you’ll be able to “Date with Confident Intention” so that you can attract an emotionally healthy partner into your life.

This is the perfect starter course for those who don’t feel they need personal, individual or group coaching support at this time.

They want to “get their feet wet” and at least get started in learning this valuable information that will change their life, and the way they Love.

Here is what you can expect to learn from this transformative virtual Training Academy:

Module 1: Awake to Awareness: Assessing & Moving Beyond Pain, Childhood Traumas, and/or Subconscious Behavioral Triggers

In this module, you’ll begin by taking the “Relationship Readiness Quiz for Singles,” to see how ready you really are for a relationship and clearly define what areas need improvement. You’ll also define the concerns you currently have about your overall life and love relationships and identify the changes you want to make. Then, you’ll begin the process of creating change by assessing your childhood to identify any and all traumas that need to be brought into conscious awareness so that you start to change and stop negative patterns for good.

You’ll learn:

  • Which (if any) forms of abuse you’ve experienced in your past.
  • How childhood, dating or relationship trauma may have impacted you in your past, and how it may still be impacting you in your present.
  • To identify your emotions and move beyond them (especially in regard to anxiousness, fearful and negative thinking or depression).
  • Your personality profile and self-esteem scale as a starting point for growth.
  • And more.

Module 2: Personal Transformation: Reaching Personal Success with Focused & Consistent Goal Setting in All Life Areas

In this module, we’ll look at creating balance in your life. It begins with creating a new life vision, which will provide you with even more motivation for change focusing on Mind, Body, and Soul work!

You’ll discover:

  • How to create your personal ‘Wheel of Life,’ so that you can experience satisfaction in ALL life areas.
  • Exact ways to increase your confidence and reduce stress in your life so you can reach your dreams.
  • Why goal setting is integral to your personal growth and success, and of course, HOW to set realistic, achievable goals.
  • The 5 D’s for Focused, Personal Success, so that you can enjoy life’s journey no matter what is going on (yes, even during the difficult times).
  • Learn Divine Meditation to calm anxiety, depression, and fear-based thoughts so that you can experience increased overall happiness and well-being
  • And more.

Riana’s Coaching Program has helped me recognize what an ACOA is (an Adult from Childhood Trauma – and it’s affects it plays on one’s self-esteem and in Partner choice.) She offered me plenty of information and questions to ask both myself – and my dates – to determine what level of growth someone from Childhood Trauma has achieved.

I am so eager to further expand my knowledge in this area that has affected me so greatly in the past; then see what new experiences come my way! I now feel spiritually and consciously strong and recognize that my self-care is so important. I have learned about my Requirements, Wants and Needs to focus on while dating, so I will now choose the right man for me. My mindset is positive, strong and confident now!
Christine B – (40’s)

Module 3: Conscious & Spiritual Mindfulness: Increase Self-Esteem, Confidence, Balance and Positivity for Happiness & Passion in Life

Get ready for breakthroughs! In this module, we’ll cover why some level of spirituality is essential for feeling your best. Then, we focus on mindfulness, beginning with how to replace your “stinking thinking” with positive thoughts, which is KEY to creating happiness.

You’ll learn:

  • How to distinguish the good from the bad in life’s lessons, so you can find your purpose in life (and even a powerful Plan B).
  • Four Essential Questions to ask yourself when it comes to choices and actions, and when to ask them in order to empower all your relationships.
  • How to create balance in your life and your relationships, PLUS the six areas to regularly monitor to keep the balance.
  • How to use the Law of Attraction so it works in your favor.
  • And more

Module 4: Dating & Having the Love You Deserve: Defining & Attracting Your Ideal Life Partner

In this module, you’ll dive deep into yourself and your subconscious beliefs about love. You’ll figure out exactly what you want in an ideal partner and create distinctions that will allow you to differentiate between love and obsession … so you can move beyond temporary lust or chemistry – based attractions to real quality character and conscious attachment.

You’ll discover:

  • Five Truths of Conscious Dating, so you can set yourself up to attract an emotionally healthy, evolved partner (and not another toxic, co-dependent relationship!).
  • How to avoid the 14 Dating Traps (and the specific issues you’ll face with online dating), so that you can find your perfect mate without any online horror stories.
  • How to identify your relationship history and patterns, so you’re no longer doomed to repeat them.
  • PLUS, I share the best offline ways to flirt and date – no computer needed!
  • And more.

When I first met with Riana, I was in a very low place in my life. I was coming out of a bad relationship, I was in a new relationship I wasn’t happy with, I wasn’t happy with my job and I was filled with anxiety and depression.

I had met with therapists and psychiatrists to try to deal with the depression, but nothing was working. Riana’s program helped me take a natural approach to healing myself within, using her system. I started to meditate and take the vitamins recommended and my anxiety and depression started to get better.

I know what to look for in a good partner and my entire outlook on life changed. I would have to credit Riana with turning my life around and helping me achieve my true potential!
Dan, (20s)

Module 5: Success in Life & Love: Establishing an Emotionally-Healthy, Evolved & Conscious Relationship

Here you’ll learn the rules of effective communication, so you can clearly communicate your needs, wants, and desires to your potential mate. That’s right; this is where we eliminate the communication barriers. No more “guessing” if you’re even speaking the same language.

You’ll learn:

  • How to craft a Conscious Dating Plan after taking the Relationship Readiness Assessment, so you can confidently take steps toward finding “The One”
  • WHERE to find your perfect mate, and HOW to attract him or her now!
  • The best ways to cultivate your relationship skills and attitudes, so you can be the partner you want to attract.
  • And more.

Plus, You Get These Amazing Bonuses Worth $1,797:

Bonus 1: Conscious Dating Red Flags Checklist
You want to make sure that you’re spending your time dating the right person… but it can be really hard to be objective about a new relationship! This checklist will help you identify any possible red flags in your relationship so you can decide if you’re talking yourself into a relationship or if it’s the real deal.
(Value $500)

Bonus 2: 10 Essential Questions You Must Ask on a First Date to Know if They’re a Keeper
You want to have an emotionally healthy, evolved relationship – which means you don’t want to waste your time dating a dud! These 10 essential questions aren’t “ice breakers” – they’re designed to help you know if the date in front of you is emotionally heathy and a great partner, as well as if their core values are aligned to yours – from Date 1 – so you know immediately if this date is “a one and done” or if you feel confident to move on to a second date.
(Value $500)

Bonus 3: Private 1-on-1 Quick Start Coaching Session with Riana
In this 1-Hour Virtual Coaching Session with Riana on SKYPE, we’ll talk about what’s holding you back from having the love relationship you want. Then, I’ll give you a customized plan for navigating the Dating to Mating Program, so you’ll know EXACTLY what to focus on in the course!
(Value $797)

I had a lot to work on and correct as I was an ACOA with abandonment concerns and was choosing partners who were no good for me. The program helped me change my mindset and overall self-worth. Daily meditations reduce my stress levels and I am now able to stay positive even on the rough days. I learned to value myself and know my worth, my requirements and non-negotiables when choosing an emotionally healthy partner.

I have already had positive experiences in my career goals, personal life and relationships. I am ready for an evolved partnership and I’m now dating someone exclusively for over 8 months, who also wants marriage and a family! I have learned to follow my dreams, take risks, and not be afraid anymore to be alone.

My biggest strengths have become to stay positive, and I feel attractive and amazing about myself!
Jamie C. (30’s)

In Short, You’ll Have Everything You Need to FREE Yourself from the Traumas That Have Impacted You Your Entire Life, So You Can Finally Live a Joyful, Love-Filled Life, alongside Your Perfect-for-You Mate!

Right now, you might be thinking, “This sounds great, Riana! How are we going to cover it all?”

Great question!

When you enroll in the Mastery Level of Dating to Mating Life & Love Transformation Self-Study Program for Singles you receive:

Immediate access to five training modules, and their accompanying bonus training videos. You have 2-weeks to focus on each module to really try the suggestions in each one – so the concepts stick with time and practice.

A downloadable 90-page Life & Love Transformation Notebook contains exercises created from over two years of my research I conducted while helping people with childhood trauma improve their Life & Love Relationships. This workbook takes everything you learn in the course even deeper, helping you break bad habits while learning all about emotionally-healthy, evolved, conscious love relationships, and how to create them for yourself.

Audio instruction for EACH workbook chapter and course module; so you get the most out of the work you do completing them.


Riana was an essential part of helping me to heal myself and to rebound after a very difficult divorce. After 5 years of trying to do this for myself, it wasn’t until I hired a Life Coach, Riana Milne – to really speed up the process. My daughter was angry and didn’t want me to move on, and had a difficult time accepting any woman I chose to date. I admit, I was choosing the wrong type of woman, spinning my wheels and ending up depressed and just immersed in my work.

Today, my life is totally different, and it’s wonderful to see my kids so happy and successful! I have an amazing woman in my life that I will be asking to marry soon. If you are thinking of hiring Riana, don’t hesitate!

It is well worth the investment to finally feel so fantastic and confident about life.
Johnny B (50s)


By now, you may be asking yourself, “Riana, I can’t wait to transform my life from the ground up—including Beginning with releasing my Childhood Traumas—so I can find my perfect mate! What is the investment?”

Great question.

Let me ask you this:

Which is a greater investment—money, or time?

You can’t get time back.

And how much time have you spent being lonely? Feeling unloved? Or in relationships that you knew were wrong for you? How many times have you repeated that process, just to NOT be alone?

I’ll bet you can measure that in years, not months.

If you’re finally ready—ready to focus on the one thing all your relationships have in common—YOU …

… if you’re ready to invest your time, energy, and focus into YOU …

Then the monetary investment for “The Mastery Level - Dating to Mating Life & Love Self-Study Program for Singles:" (which is a total value of over $4000, including bonuses) is the easy part: it’s just $1797.

BUT, because I want to make it as easy as possible for you to invest in yourself, for a limited time, I’m offering you a “Take Decisive Action” discount of $300!

That means that when you take action TODAY, you invest ONLY $1497!

Then I asked myself if there was any way I could make the investment even easier on you … which is why I’m also offering a limited-time, two-payment plan: make two simple payments of $825 - 21-days apart.

I'm going to take all the risk off of you by offering you a 100%; 14-day money-back guarantee.

Here is our deal:

Know that you’re protected by a 14-Day Money-Back Guarantee from the day of payment. If you fully participate in doing all the exercises up to Orientation and/or Module One ONLY (and not go into any other Modules or download any more educational lessons beyond Module One) and take the necessary actions each worksheet or process suggests, and still cannot create new—big or small—results (and you’ll send me the completed course assignments, stating the new action you’ve taken, and the results produced), I will send you a refund; less Administration & Tech costs of $150; or I can apply your full investment into other types of Coaching you desire after we meet together to discuss various other Coaching options available to you. You have the option to step up to a Group Singles program or to work 1 on 1 with me, and this Self-study fee will be applied to your new program, should you desire to do one.

NOW, are you ready to reserve your spot? Or do you still have a few questions?

Below, I've included a few of the questions I hear most frequently, and their answers, to help you decide if the “Dating to Mating” Life & Love Transformation Self-Study Singles Program - is a good match for you.

A: To put it plainly, this program has worked for thousands of people of all ages, backgrounds, countries, and cultures, for years. It doesn’t matter if you’re straight or LGBT, young or old, a man or a woman; you absolutely need to heal any deep-rooted past Childhood or Love Trauma before you can be successful in any relationship! Just do the work and it will work for you!

Frankly … It’s Time to Have the Love You Deserve!

What better investment could you possibly make than in yourself … and in love?

Many people of trauma do for everyone else, and rarely say “YES” to themselves. It’s time for you! It’s time to love yourself more!

And the information you learn in the course changes your life! FOREVER! Once you have these skills, you will use them for the rest of your life. Think of the value of that investment!

Yes, Riana! I’m ready for love!

I understand that for my investment of $1997 $1497, I receive:

Instant access to the five training modules and their accompanying bonus videos

Instant access to the downloadable Life & Love Transformation Notebook Exercises

Audio instruction for EACH workbook chapter

Powerpoint education, bonus videos, downloadable books, and much more!

But hurry, the “Take Decisive Action” discount is a limited time offer!

Plus, get these amazing bonuses worth $1797 with the Pay in Full Plan:

  • Conscious Dating Red Flags Checklist
  • 10 Essential Questions You Must Ask on a First Date to Know if They’re a Keeper
  • Private 1-hour, Quick Start Coaching Session with Riana

Or – I select to make 2 payments of $825.00 21 days apart.


Karishma (30s) A few months ago, I was struggling in my love life. I wanted to have an emotionally healthy and happy marriage but had no idea how to find a partner. I was scared, timid and lacked the confidence of even talking to men, let alone looking for one for marriage. I also had a lot of unhealed wounds and past trauma. But then I met Riana and her online program through a relationship summit. She gave me hope and inspiration that my rough past doesn’t have to affect my present and future. With the help of her 90-day, Online program, I have healed my past, improved my confidence and self-esteem and I’m looking forward to a bright future with a partner. Now I am a different person then what I was a few months ago. Riana is a real person and I would definitely recommend her coaching program to anyone who wants a conscious healthy relationship with a partner.

Like I always say:

You Can’t Change What You Don’t Understand!

If you’re like 90% of the population, events from your past have been impacting your life & love relationships over and over in ways that you don’t consciously understand. It’s time to discover and release those traumas for good, so you can have the love and joy you want and deserve!

It all starts here!

In Light & Love,



P.S. Whether you say yes or no, I really encourage you to MAKE A DECISION about it before you jump off this page. Please don’t let this be one more thing you need to “think about.”

Don’t stay stuck and frustrated by delaying this decision. Are you ready for love?

Trust the answer that comes and move forward!

Say YES to Creating the Life You Desire & to Having the Love you Deserve!

Let’s Do this!

You Can’t Change What You Don’t Understand!

I love the Mastery Online Level of Dating to Mating - Life & Love Transformation Program for Singles. The program so far has helped me understand that many of my previous dating mistakes were due to my past. I’m so grateful to have found Riana, the course focuses on you and your development. The modules are well organized, you start by fixing the root of your problems. Truly transforming yourself. Every time I wasn’t feeling well - I would do the homework that was assigned and it turned around my day. I’m enjoying this course so much and can’t wait to graduate. The group support is fantastic and wished I would have invested years ago on this course.

From Lana B (30s) - Online Singles Student



Lisa C (60) – The Singles Dating to Mating Group course exceeded my expectations. I learned so much about my Childhood Traumas and my faulty belief systems and relational patterns and responses! I was an unconscious serial dater who habitually dated with another waiting in the wings without any real purpose except to have fun and escape reality, thinking it would prepare me for the important relationship when it came along – which it never did because I wasted my time with others who were not emotionally healthy or evolved. I can now recognize the red flags and respond accordingly by acknowledging my top Must-haves for a Partner. There was great personal accountability with Riana and others in the group – I now have a friend for life as we had been going through the exact same situation! Riana’s upfront, vulnerable sharing and open heart about her past and present situations along with the lessons from her journey, wisdom, and knowledge really healed every one. Especially the “Watch Me” Mindset for Success – I will practice it for Life! This program was a huge breakthrough for me in getting past the blind spots that I had, and it helped me enter into the Light of Loving and Living a full life with deeper Spiritual purpose. I LOVED IT! Thanks, Riana – Love, Lisa (Dating to Mating Singles Group)


Nikki F. (50’s) Riana’s Online Dating to Mating program held at the www.LifeandLoveTrainingAcademy.com is very inviting and conversational. While watching her videos, I feel she is in my living room giving me one on one attention and much of what she’s teaching is absolutely spot-on advice and guidance that I need to hear. The written content is easy to understand and assimilate. Solid, real-world education is what she offers. She provides a wealth of information among her books, videos, television programming, workbooks, and rich life experience!  And… things are going great with the man I have met since starting the Group program!  Best, Nikki (Online Singles Student)



If you came across Riana's course and wondering whether or not you have the necessary time (and the money) to invest in it, keep reading because I was there too. I had my life together in all areas but still struggled a little in personal life. But if you want a change - you have to try something you have not done before. I knew that something about my past trauma/childhood/upbringing must have influenced who I was as an adult, but I just did not know how much and wanted to learn, so I signed up for DTM Course. Riana will give you all the knowledge you need to work on yourself and address ACOA issues so you can practice at your pace to become a happier and healthier person. Between the course materials, videos, worksheets and group meetings you will have all the support you need. All you have to do is stick with it and do the materials and practice the skills you learn. This course will not only help you know yourself better but give you an understanding of what to look for in a relationship and how to navigate through the dating part. Your whole mindset will shift and you will find yourself excited about the process and looking forward to what life has in store for you. Riana will spell the rules of dating for you so you can follow what has worked for so many of her students. So go ahead, and sign up! You will not regret it and this knowledge is with you for life! (Update 8/2019 - Lia is very happily in an exclusive relationship and discussing marriage at this time!)  Lia - Online Student