If you’re sick and tired of feeling lonely, being depressed, and anxiously dating all the wrong people – This is for you…
At Last: Discover How to STOP Making the same “mistakes” in your Love Relationships! You CAN Attract the Partner of Your Dreams.
It’s Time to Have the Love (and Life) You Deserve!
Does this sound familiar?
- Your friends are all in relationships … and you’re secretly envious. You don’t want to settle for just anybody, but you’re so tired of being alone!
- This isn’t where you thought you’d be in life at this point. You thought by now you’d have found the love of your life, gotten married, had babies -and you thought you’d be experiencing the joy of being part of a happy family.
- You thought for sure you would be “with your person” to spend retirement years and the rest of your life with. You never thought you would be growing older – alone.
- Speaking of joy … yours has been noticeably absent for quite a while. You’re bored with life, with yourself, and your job. You hate to admit it, but you’re wondering if you might be a bit depressed.
- You can find dates, sure—with all the wrong people! You can see the train wreck coming a mile away, but you consistently find yourself choosing the same type of person, and the trains just keep on coming. The relationships lead to dead-end stop, and you become a train wreck.
- Your dating experience is severely undermining your confidence, self-esteem, and even body image. You’re finding yourself falling back on that “What’s wrong with me?” mindset, and you really can’t figure out “what you’re doing “wrong.”
Let’s stop these anxious feelings about yourself and your world, and start your Personal Life & Love Transformation Journey today!
I’ve been in your shoes.
You see, when I realized that my toxic marriages were largely due to the type of man I continuously was attracted to date, I knew I was going to have to dig deep if I wanted things to change. I was dedicated to finding the answers I needed to change my “faulty Attraction factor.” But I discoverd, “You can’t change what you don’t understand”, so my mission was to do the research to help myself and others. I sought the answers that none of us learned in any schools or training. I wanted to know EXACTLY what to do to attract emotionally healthy, evolved and conscious Love; and how to TOTALLY AVOID Toxic Partners who could break my heart.
I too have suffered from a couple of Childhood Emotional Traumas. As a very skinny young girl with big glasses, I was bullied until I entered into the modeling field at age 13. I grew up alongside two brothers I adored, but they were my mom’s “Golden Children,” and she was not one to compliment or say the words, “I Love You”, leaving me to often feel “not good enough.” My mother was tough, critical and pushed us to succeed; and my Dad (the loving emotional one) was rarely home due to his work; which involved a lot of travel and was necessary to support our family. This left my mom to raise 5 children mostly on her own, often leaving her tired and resentful (understandably so).
I also discovered that an event I buried deeply when I was just ten years old, had a big impact on me as an adult woman and Partner choices. At the young and innocent age of 10, my brother and I discovered a secret footlocker in my father’s office. We thought we’d found a Treasure Chest (young children have a creative imagination!)… until we pried it open.
That was when we discovered my father’s secret life – we didn’t know he had. The contents were shocking to young girl who adored her Dad.
My brother and I held that secret for the next eighteen years. Then, as my father was dying, his mistress reappeared in our life. THAT trauma reserviced and reinforced the trauma I experienced many years before. It formed the unconscious “Love map of Chemistry” that I was not aware of; of which I dearly paid for in a poor choice of Partners.
Now, my story isn’t unique. I am just sharing it to tell you I understand both Childhood and Love Trauma, because I have been there. And I was determined to get to the bottom of it, since NO ONE had the answers on how to help me heal this form of PTSD when I sought Counseling years ago. You see, I had unkowingly chose a husband almost exactly like my father – who was handsome, charming, socially outgoing (everyone loved him!), confident and successful – without realizing he had a secret life! His secret life included a porn addiction and a mistress too – I had married “my Dad!”
So I began to research how the events of childhood shape our experiences as adults, especially when it comes to our intimate relationships. And that research led me to my understanding of how Adverse Childhood Events and early, past Dating or Relationship Trauma re-emerge as subconscious Emotional Triggers throughout our lives; especially with a Partner we love. Without healing this, it leads to poor mate selection and even to sabotaging a great relationship.
Since 90% of all adults have experience some form of Childhood Trauma or an adverse childhood events, my childhood was practically “typical.” Thank God, “with Knowledge and education comes Power,” and leads to confidence and empowerment when it comes to knowing EXACTLY what to look for in a Partner, as well as who to avoid.
Our Subconscious Chooses and Attracts Partners for us that Reinforce What We Have Experienced as Children or Teens.
My clients are smart, successful, beautiful, kind, loving and are frustrated and emotionally exhausted over the repeated pain they experience with their relationships. I noticed a pattern in them that had come from Unhealed Childhood Trauma; and that they didn’t know or realize they had Unconscious Emotional Triggers and Behavioral patterns that led to poor Partner choices. They often chose the same type of toxic partner over and over again.
After all that research, I become a Certified Life, Dating & Relationship Coach for Singles & Couples, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Mindfulness Coach so that I could take this message of healing, hope, and transformation to people around the world. I discovered most of my counseling and coaching clients over 20 years had suffered from very similar toxic cycles! They (or their partners) had Unhealed Childhood Traumas too which sabotaged their relationships and ruined the love they truly craved in their life.
I went on to discover how to break the toxic cycle of “hurtful love.” You can’t change what you don’t understand, so we have to heal the past trauma first, then develop the Mindset for Success while increasing your confidence and self esteem with education and specific tools for successful dating and relationships.
Understanding and healing from the common Ten Childhood Traumas that SO many people suffer from, stops the painful cycle of toxic, codependent or addictive love, and broken emotionally abusive relationships. (close to 60% of marriages are ending today!)
This led to developing the Singles program, “Dating to Mating – Life & Love Transformation Coaching for Singles” and “Relationship Rescue for Couples.”
The combination of reserach-based education and Coaching for insight leads to creating loving relationships that are emotionally healthy, consciously evolved, supportive, fulfilling and sustainable over time.
Today, I’m determined to help those who are suffering in life and love so that they can turn their lives around to be fearless, confident, and have a positive mindset for success in ALL life areas – as well as teach the exact skills needed to attract an emotionally healthy partner into their life.
This program will Help You to Create the Life You Desire & to Have the Love You Deserve!
“I was struggling, lost and helpless but Riana’s supportive Coaching techniques led me to find myself and to make positive lifestyle changes after a difficult divorce. Because of her incredible insight into life issues and her ability to express direction in her coaching program, I gained the strength I needed to move forward and feel amazing! Today….I am stronger, happier and love myself more than I ever have. I am now in a wonderful, emotionally healthy & evolved relationship – and knew EXACTLY what to do to attract this type of love into my life! I would highly recommend her Coaching program!” – Lisa (50s)
I met Riana doing a new reality series called “Radical Dating” Finding Love over 40. Riana was assigned as my coach. I wasn’t sure what to expect as I have not been on a reality show before, let alone had any kind of coach. After three months of filming, I am a different person than when I started the show. I owe all my positive changes to Riana.
I am a gay man in my 40’s. I was in a relationship for over 6 years and then my partner passed away in an accident. I have dated one person briefly in the last 6 years and that didn’t turn out well. I had many issues that I needed to deal with if I was ever going to be able to have a healthy, long-lasting relationship with anyone.
I had a fear of abandonment (childhood issues), did not trust, made humor a mechanism of dealing with any issue, was a negative person, and not happy. I needed not only a personality adjustment but I needed a wakeup call.
With Riana’s help, I overcame all my obstacles. Riana is the most wonderful coach anyone could ever have in their life. She made me aware of issues I needed to overcome, brought spirituality into my life, and brought me to a place where I am truly happy. She provides a wealth of encouragement, motivation and strength. If you are willing to help yourself and get over those obstacles, then Riana is exactly who you need to “be in your corner” as your Coach.
She will pick you up, dust you off and help push you in the direction you need to go. I will say that if it was not for Riana, I would still just be going through the motions in this life of mine. She helped me realize I have a purpose and a strength that I did not even know I had. Thank you, Riana for everything you have done for me!” Love, Scott (40s) (now Happliy marrie
Dating to Mating for Singles: Life & Love Training Academy
I’ve carefully designed this online training platform to give you everything you need to identify and release any and all traumas you’ve experienced in your life. When you do, you’ll become more in touch with your emotions, letting go of your fear-based negative mindset and traumatic responses with ease.
Moreover, you’ll reconnect with yourself, becoming clear on exactly who you are and what you want from a love relationship, so you can attract your perfect partner, and go from single to exclusive (without repeating mistakes from the past!).
We start with identifying and changing any areas of your life you want improved as well as discuss your goals and dreams for your future. Once you complete Part One of the program, you will have become Consiously aware and feel like a Successful Single before you start dating! Then, with the Dating Skills you learn in Part Two, you’ll be able to “Date with Intention” so that you can begin to Attract an Emotionally Healthy Partner into your life.
Below is what you'll learn from this Transformative virtual Life & Love Training Academy:
Intensive, Research-based Self-study or Group DTM Training:
Module 1: Awake to Awareness: Assessing & Moving Beyond Pain, Childhood Traumas, and/or Subconscious Behavioral Triggers
In this module, you’ll begin by taking the “Relationship Readiness Quiz for Singles,” to see how ready you are for a relationship and clearly define what areas need improvement. You’ll also define the concerns you currently have about your overall life and love relationships and identify the changes you want to make. Then, you’ll begin the process of creating change by assessing your childhood to identify any and all traumas.
- Which (if any) forms of Childhood or Relationship trauma or abuse you’ve experienced in your past.
- How this trauma may have impacted you and how it may still be impacting you in your present life.
- To identify your emotions and move beyond any emotional abuse, anxiety or depression by using full Conscious awareness and the Mindset for Success tools and strategies.
- Your personality profile and self-esteem scale will act as a starting point for growth and Personal Transformatioin journey.
- And much more.
Module 2: Personal Transformation: Reaching Personal Success with Focused & Consistent Goal Setting in All Life Areas
In this module, we’ll look at creating balance in all your life areas. It begins with creating a new life vision, which will provide you with even more motivation for change focusing on Mindset, Overall Health, and devised a goal-setting plan for growth and a Positive outlook in your world!
- How to create your personal ‘Wheel of Life,’ so that you can experience satisfaction in ALL life areas.
- Exact ways to increase your confidence, and lessen the stress levels in your life so you can reach your goals and dreams.
- Why goal setting is integral to your personal growth and success, and of course, HOW to set realistic, achievable goals.
- The 5 D’s for Focused, Personal Success, so that you can enjoy life’s journey no matter how you might be challenged (yes, even during the difficult times you can be pro-active, not reactive).
- Learn Divine Meditation to calm anxiety, depression and more so that you can experience increased overall well-being and a sense of calm
- And tons more.
Module 3: Conscious & Spiritual Mindfulness: Increase Self-Esteem, Confidence, Balance and Positivity for Happiness & Passion in Life
Get ready for breakthroughs! In this module, we’ll cover why some level of Spirituality is essential for feeling your best. Then, we focus on mindfulness, beginning with how to replace your “stinking negative thinking” with positive proactive thoughts, which is KEY to creating happiness.
- How to distinguish the good from the bad in life’s lessons, so you can find your purpose in life (and maybe a powerful Plan B).
- Four Essential Questions to ask yourself when it comes to choices and actions, and when to ask them in order to empower all your relationships.
- How to create balance in your life and your relationships, PLUS the six areas to regularly monitor to keep your life balanced.
- How to use the Law of Attraction along with the Mindset for Success so it works in your favor in all life areas.
- And lots more
Module 4: Dating & Having the Love You Deserve: Defining & Attracting Your Ideal Life Partner
In this module, you’ll dive deep into yourself and your subconscious beliefs about love. You’ll figure out exactly what you want in an ideal partner, and create distinctions that will allow you to differentiate between love and obsession … so you can move beyond lust or chemistry-based attractions to choose real attachment.
- Five Truths of Conscious Dating, so you can set yourself up to attract an emotionally healthy, evolved partner (and not another toxic, co-dependent relationship!).
- How to avoid the 14 Dating Traps (and the specific issues you’ll face with online dating), so that you can carefully find your perfect mate.
- How to identify your relationship history and patterns, so you’re no longer doomed to repeat them unconsciously.
- PLUS, I share the best offline ways to flirt and date – and great places to find a Partner – no computer needed!
- And of course, much more.
Module 5: Success in Life & Love: Establishing an Emotionally-Healthy, Evolved & Conscious Relationship
Here you’ll learn the rules of effective communication, so you can clearly communicate your needs, wants, and desires to your potential mate. You’ll learn to maintain your boundaires, learn to say “No” and communicate through any issues with confidence while eliminating any communication barriers. No more “guessing” if you’re even speaking the same language.
- To craft a Conscious Dating Plan so you can confidently take steps toward realistically finding “The One”
- Where to find your perfect mate, and How to attract him or her now!
- The best ways to cultivate your relationship skills and attitudes, so you can BE the Partner you want to attract.
- Understand the various stages of relationships so you aren’t led down a dark, empty road.
- Know the Red Flags checklist to watch behavioral patterns over time with your new Partner to ensure they are Emotionally Healthy after the initial “meeting & courting phase.”
- And so much more.
Plus, You Get These Amazing Bonuses Worth Over $3,000:
Bonus 1: Conscious Dating Red Flags Checklist
You want to make sure that you’re spending your time dating the right person… but it can be really hard to be objective about a new relationship! This checklist will help you identify any possible red flags in your relationship so you can decide if you’re talking yourself into a relationship or if it’s the real deal.
Bonus 2: 10 Essential Questions You Must Ask on a First Date to Know if They’re a Keeper
You want to have an emotionally healthy, evolved relationship – which means you don’t want to waste your time dating a dud! These 10 essential questions aren’t “icebreakers” – they’re designed to help you know if the date in front of you is emotionally healthy and a great partner, as well as if their core values are aligned with yours – from Date 1 – so you know immediately if this date is “a one and done” or if you feel confident to move on to a second date.
Bonus 3: Private Life & Love Transformation Strategy Session with Riana In this 60-minute virtual Introductory Strategy session, we’ll talk about what’s holding you back from having the love relationship you want. Then, I’ll give you a customized plan for navigating the Dating to Mating Program, so you’ll know EXACTLY what to focus on in the course! (for those who have not had this session already with Riana). If you have had this session recently, I will meet with you after you complete Module One. (Value $1,000)
Bonus 4: Private Graduation Session Once you graduate, as a Congratulations gift, you will meet with me for a 1-hour Bonus Coaching session to review any personal questions you have from the course and review your goals and plan for dating Post-graduation. (Value $1,000)
In Short, You’ll have Everything You Need to Free Yourself from the Traumas that have Impacted You your Entire Life, so You can Finally live a Joyful, Love-filled Life, alongside Your Perfect-for-You Mate!
When you enroll in Dating to Mating for Singles: Life and Love Training you receive:
- Immediate access to five paced-out training modules, and their accompanying bonus training videos. There is a module every 2 weeks so that you are sure to practice the new skills you learn in each module. This is a comfortable pace and will be done over 4 months of time.
- A downloadable 90-page Life & Love Transformation Notebook contains exercises created from over many years of my research I conducted while helping people with Childhood Trauma improve their Life & Love Relationships. This workbook takes everything you learn in the course even deeper, helping you break bad habits while learning all about emotionally-healthy, evolved, conscious love relationships, and how to create them for yourself.
- Audio instruction for EACH workbook chapter and course module; so you get the most out of the work you do completing them.
By now, you may feeling - "I'm Ready to Create the Life I Desire & Have the Love I Deserve! What's the investment?”
Great question. Let me ask you this:
Which is a greater investment—money, or time?
You can’t get time back. And for sure, the clock is ticking, especially if you want marriage and a family, or you are hoping for romantic travel during retirement.
And how much time have you spent being lonely? Feeling unloved? Or in relationships that you knew were wrong for you? How many times have you repeated that process, just to NOT be alone? How much more time will you spend in “trying to do better” without the skills you really need to succeed?
I’ll bet you can measure that in years, not months.
If you’re finally ready—ready to focus on the one thing all your relationships have in common—YOU …
… if you’re ready to invest your time, energy, and focus into YOU … there are several programs available to You.
There are 5 Various Dating to Mating Coaching Programs – One is Perfect for You!
1) The Mastery Self-Study Program: Dating to Mating Life & Love Transformation Self-Study
I designed this 4-month Self-study training to give you everything you need to identify and release any and all the traumas you’ve experienced in your life. When you do, you’ll become more in touch with your emotions, letting go of your negative mindset, anxious or depressive thoughts and fears, and emotional triggered responses with ease.
Moreover, you’ll reconnect with yourself, becoming clear on exactly who you are and what you want in life, and from a love relationship, so you can attract your perfect partner, and go from single to committed (without repeating mistakes from the past!).
We start with identifying and changing any areas of your life you want improved. Follow the directions closely to be able to feel like a Successful Single before you start dating! Then, you’ll be able to “Date with Confident Intention” so that you can attract an emotionally healthy partner into your life.
This is the perfect starter course for those who don’t feel they need personal, individual or group coaching support at this time. They want to “get their feet wet” and at least get started in learning this valuable information that will change their life, and the way they Love.
This has a total value of over $5000 PLUS $3,000 in Bonuses; a Value of $8,000 – All for $1997!
Mastery Program: Only $1,997. when you invest in full; Payment Plan: $997 down, then 3 auto-payments of $397 every 21 days; a total of $2188. (save $191 with full-pay of $1997
The Following 3 Programs require the Life & Love Discovery Session with Riana to determine the best fit.
Sign up HERE for Private, Life & Love Transformation Discovery Session.
2) Silver Mastery Hybrid program: Five, 1-Hour private Coaching sessions + The Mastery Self-study
This 4-month Coaching program is also housed in the LifeandLoveTrainingAcademy.com and you will receive the Self-study program PLUS – 5 Private, 1-on-1 Coaching sessions with Riana, one per module, or you may be flexible when you receive them according to which module will be most beneficial to you. You and Riana will make this decision together after your Bonus Introductory session. When you finish, you receive the Graduation Bonus session as well
3) Platinum 1-on-1, VIP Coaching program: Nine,1-hour private sessions + 90-pg Workbook + Unlimited emails
This a 4-month program and includes Unlimited emails, and 9, 1-on-1 private Coaching sessions. You also have a 45 minutes each month of “Help now” phone sessions when something comes up. Other benefits include: your dating profile written with you, image consultation, 1-month follow up session to check on your progress and more. All Fast-action Scholarships & Bonuses will be reviewed to you during your Discovery Session. Because there is very limited space to work privately with Riana, you must apply and meet with her for a Life & Love Transformation session to see if you are a good fit for this program
4) Diamond 1-on-1, VIP program: Twenty,1-hour private Coaching sessions + Unlimited Texts + Unlimited emails + 150-pg manual + 1-hour/month emergency sessions
This a 6-month very High-service VIP program and includes full Text access to Riana, along with Unlimited emails, and 20, 1-on-1 sessions. Because there is very limited numbers Riana can work with in this high-service model, you must apply and meet with Riana for a Life & Love Transformation session to see if you are a good fit for this top-level program.
There are various payment plans that vary per program. Please email Riana for the details on the program you desire. Or, talk to our very friendly Funding Company who will pay for your Coaching up front, and enter into a private payment plan with you at https://rianamilne.com/funding-for-coaching
NOW, are you ready to begin your Coaching Journey, or do you still have a few questions?
You can also email Riana at – RianaMilne@gmail.com or see the questions list below to see if your answer is there. I’ve included a few of the questions I hear most frequently, and their answers, to help you decide which one of The “Dating to Mating” Life & Love Transformation Program for Singles – is the best fit for you.
Yes, Riana! I’m ready for an amazing, emotionally healthy, conscious Love Relationship; and to have a Life I feel passionate about!
I understand that for my $1997 Investment in the Mastery Self-Study, I receive:
- Instant access to the five training modules and their accompanying bonus videos and Power Point lessons
- Instant access to the downloadable Life & Love Transformation Notebook Exercises (close to 100 of them!)
- Audio instruction for EACH workbook chapter
- Two Bonus 1-Hour Coaching sessions: in Module One and one for Graduation at the conclusion of the program
Plus, I Receive these fabulous Bonuses Worth over $3000 when I Pay in Full!
- Conscious Dating Red Flags Checklist
- 10 Essential Questions You Must Ask on a First Date to Know if They’re a Keeper
- Private 1-hour Coaching Session with Riana to plan for your individual Mastery program
- Graduation Bonus Session for Mastery students
Mastery Self-Study program: Full pay only $1997; plus $3000 in Bonuses!
1) Mastery Program: $997 down, then 3 auto-payments of $397 every 21 days; a total of $2188. (save $191 with full-pay of $1997)
2) Diamond, Platinum and Silver levels: payment plans will be discussed upon your Interview session with Riana.
Like I always say: You Can’t Change What You Don’t Understand!
If you’re like 90% of the population, events from your past have been impacting your life & love relationships over and over in ways that you don’t consciously understand. It’s time to discover and release those traumas for good, so you can have the love and joy you want and deserve!
It all starts here, with the Dating to Mating program!
In Light & Love, Riana
P.S. I really encourage you to MAKE A DECISION about it before you jump off this page. Please don’t let this be one more thing you need to “think about.”
YES, all programs are totally worth the advertised investment; just read some of our Client Testimonials Here
Don’t stay stuck and frustrated by delaying this decision. You are worth it! Are you really ready for love?
Trust the answer that comes, and move forward! Say YES to Yourself like so many who have, and to Have the Life You Desire & the Love You Deserve!
Let’s Do this!
Also know that you’re protected by a 15-Day Money-Back Guarantee from day of payment. If you fully participate in doing all the exercises up to Orientation and/or Module One; attend the Coaching classes offered up to and including from the 15-day purchase period, (and not go into any other Modules or download anymore educational lessons beyond Module One) and take the necessary actions on each worksheet as the process suggests, and still cannot create new—big or small—results (and you’ll send me the completed course assignments, stating the new action you’ve taken, and the results produced), I will send you a refund; less Administration & Tech costs of $150; or if you cancel before beginning your program, the same Service Charge applies. I will discuss with you how you can apply your full investment into other types of Coaching program options you may desire that are available to you.
“Riana has a true passion for helping others navigate through life’s roadblocks and helping one get to their ultimate goals – be it in relationships, career, weight issues or self-esteem. I always remember someone telling me; “What makes you think doing the same thing over and over is going to produce a different result?” This was true for me before coaching. Riana gives you valuable tools each week to get to your goals in a positive and constructive way. After ending a 5-yr relationship, she helped me pick up the pieces and move forward in my life. I am grateful for all the positive and constructive advice and knowledge Riana has shared with me. I hope if you are at a crossroads in your life and need guidance that you will do yourself a great favor and hire Riana! Betsy (62)
“If you come across Riana’s Dating to Mating course and are wondering whether or not you have the necessary time (and the money) to invest in it, keep reading because I was there too. I had my life together in all areas but still struggled a little in personal life. Riana will give you all the knowledge you need to work on yourself and address ACOA issues, so you can become a happier and healthier person. Between the course materials, videos, worksheets and the Coaching Sessions, you will have all the support you need. All you have to do the materials and practice the skills you learn. This course will not only help you know yourself better, but give you understanding of what to look for in a relationship and how to navigate through dating. Your whole mindset will shift; and you will find yourself excited about the process and looking forward to what life has in store for you. Riana will spell out All the rules of dating for you, so you can follow what has worked for so many of her students. So, go ahead, and sign up! You will not regret it and this knowledge is with you for life!” Love, Lana (33)
“When I first started working with Riana, I was a mess! I had just left my husband, was living in an apartment, and was in another toxic relationship. I didn’t know what to do. I felt like I was broken because I kept choosing such terrible men. Riana helped me through a very difficult transition which included – divorce, a terrible break-up, buying a house, learning to be a single mom and co-parent. I now live in a beautiful house which I love and am out of that toxic marriage and relationship. I am content with myself and my friendships/support network have improved tremendously. Riana never judged me or made me feel bad about myself. She met me where I was and helped me get to where I wanted to be. I now have the exact tools I really needed to see the red flag warnings and to make better choices. Love, Shea (43) (now in a wonderful 2 -year relationship!)