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If you’re sick and tired of feeling lonely, anxious, or depressed, and keep dating and meeting all the wrong people, this is for you…

At Last: Discover How to STOP Making the Same “Mistakes” in Your Love Relationships! You CAN Attract the Partner of Your Dreams.

It’s time to have the love (and life!) you deserve. I’ll show you how.

If you simply can’t find love, are newly separated or divorced, or experienced a hurtful break-up or loss of a long-time partner then you need know the exact skills and strategies to gain the confidence to reinvent yourself to become a successful single who can easily attract an Emotionally Healthy Partner.

Does this sound familiar?

  • Your friends are all in relationships … and you’re happy for them, but secretly envious. You don’t want to settle for just anybody, but you’re so tired of being alone!
  • This isn’t where you thought you’d be in life at this point. You thought by now you’d have found the love of your life, gotten married, had babies … you thought you’d be experiencing the joy of being part of a happy family.
  • You thought for sure you would be “with your person” to spend retirement years and the rest of your life with. You never thought you would be growing older – alone.
  • You can find dates, sure—with all the wrong people! You can see the train wreck coming a mile away, yet you consistently find yourself choosing the “same person/different face”.
  • Your dating experience is severely undermining your confidence, self-esteem, and even body image. You’re finding yourself falling back on that “What’s wrong with me?” mindset, and you really can’t figure out what you’re doing “wrong.”

Deep breath.

It’s not your fault you’ve been attracting the wrong people. And it’s certainly not your fault if you’ve been backing off, even isolating yourself, because you’d rather be lonely than miserable.

And I promise you, I’m not just saying that! It’s really not your fault. (I said it again because I really want you to let it sink in.)

Here’s the thing: when you were a child, young and innocent, you may have experienced some adverse childhood experiences - things that actually changed you emotionally — that traumatized you unconsciously. These early traumas are now shaping how you view the world as an adult (yes, even if right now you’re thinking “But I didn’t experience trauma”).

Close to 90% of the population experienced at least one childhood trauma (and there are over 18 defined trauma events described in research!), so know that you are definitely not alone in this struggle.

Even better, help is here that can change these negative, unconscious patterns FOREVER!

I’m Coach Riana Milne.

And I’ve been where you are.

When I realized that my toxic marriages were largely due to the type of man I was continuously attracted to, and chose to date, I knew I was going to have to dig deep to understand what was happening and why - if I wanted things to change. One thing for sure, “chemistry” was not working!

I too have suffered Childhood Emotional Traumas. A very skinny young girl with big glasses, I was relentlessly teased. I grew up alongside two brothers I adored, but they were my mom’s “Golden Children”, leaving me to feel not “good enough”. My mother was tough, demanding, critical, and often angry, because my Dad was rarely home due to his work; which supported our family (a no-fault abandonment). This left her to raise 5 children mostly on her own.

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Christine B – (40’s)

Riana’s Coaching Program has helped me recognize what an ACOA is (an Adult Child of an Alcoholic & from other Childhood Traumas – and it’s affects it plays on one’s self-esteem and in Partner choice.) She offered me plenty of information and questions to ask both myself – and my dates – to determine what level of growth someone from Childhood Trauma has achieved. I am so eager to further expand my knowledge in this area that has affected me so greatly in the past; then see what new experiences come my way! I now feel spiritually and consciously strong and recognize that my self-care is so important. I have learned about my Requirements, Wants and Needs to focus on while dating, so I will now choose the right man for me. My mind-set is positive, strong and confident now!

Then came that fateful day, when I was just ten years old, and my brother and I discovered a secret footlocker in my father’s office. We thought we’d found a Treasure Chest (young children have a creative imagination!) … until we pried it open.

That was when we discovered my father’s secret life of porn, including photos and letters from his mistress we didn’t know he had.

My brother and I held that secret for the next eighteen years. Although I truly loved and admired my Dad, this secret was a horrible thing to discover as a young girl. My brother and I realized we were responsible for keeping our family together, by never revealing what we knew to anyone!

Then, as my father was dying, his mistress reappeared in our life. My brother and I knew exactly who she was to him, and THAT trauma reinforced the trauma I experienced years before.

Now, my story isn’t unique. On the contrary, since the vast majority of adults experience some form of childhood trauma or an adverse childhood event, my childhood was practically “typical.”

But what really impacted me, was unconsciously choosing a husband almost exactly like my father – who was handsome, charming, socially outgoing (everyone loved him!), confident and successful – without realizing he had a secret life! His secret life also included a porn addiction and a mistress. I ended that marriage with an annulment once his secret was discovered, and he was fired from his school after they found porn on his computer. (He was a Principle!) I was compelled to research WHY he risked everything he loved – and lost – to a secret life. What was this in his personality that made him do what he did?

So, I began to research how the real events of childhood shape our experiences in life and love as adults, especially when it comes to our intimate relationships. And that research led me to understand how Adverse Childhood Events re-emerge as subconscious emotional triggers throughout our lives; especially emerging with a partner we love.

In other words, our subconscious choices and “chemistry for someone” attracts partners for us that reinforce what we have experienced and know “as normal” as children.

And THAT’S why I ended up unconsciously choosing men who were just like my Dad! I was always able to attract men into my life, and was asked nine times to be married, but I was still choosing men based on chemistry, leading to unconsciously attracting the WRONG type of man. I noticed a pattern in all the men I dated:  they had severe Childhood Trauma and they didn’t know about their Unconscious Emotional Triggers. They also didn’t do anything to fix the problematic, ongoing toxic patterns in their life – leading to a lot of cheap drama and fighting in our relationship.

I certainly didn’t realize at the time I was attracting this, but I did go on a mission to stop the cycle of toxic mate selection in my life!

Even though I had a triple Masters Degree in Clinical & Counseling Psychology, this topic was never discussed in any of my classes or continuing education as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Even as a Licensed Alcohol & Drug Addiction Counselor, I never heard this information about Adverse Childhood Events (ACE’s)!

In fact, none of my education taught me about Childhood Trauma and Unconscious Emotional Triggers, and how it impacts an adult in life & love!

I finally decided to figure out for myself how to break the toxic cycle of “hurtful love”, so I could finally create for myself a loving relationship that was emotionally healthy, consciously evolved, supportive, and fulfilling.

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Daniel S. - (24)

Riana’s Coaching Program has helped me recognize what an ACOA is (an Adult Child of an Alcoholic & from other Childhood Traumas – and it’s affects it plays on one’s self-esteem and in Partner choice.) She offered me plenty of information and questions to ask both myself – and my dates – to determine what level of growth someone from Childhood Trauma has achieved. I am so eager to further expand my knowledge in this area that has affected me so greatly in the past; then see what new experiences come my way! I now feel spiritually and consciously strong and recognize that my self-care is so important. I have learned about my Requirements, Wants and Needs to focus on while dating, so I will now choose the right man for me. My mind-set is positive, strong and confident now!

And after TONS of research and studying, I discovered 10 common Adverse Childhood Events that SO many people suffer from, and I made it my mission to help myself and my clients heal their past traumas, so we can stop the painful cycle of toxic codependent love and broken relationships. (Close to 60% of marriages are ending today!).

I discovered many of my counseling and coaching clients suffered from the same toxic cycles as I had! They (or their partners) had Childhood or early Dating Traumas which sabotaged their current relationships and ruined the love they craved in their life.

After all that research, I become a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and combined that with being a Global, Certified Life, Dating & Relationship Coach for Singles and Couples so that I could take this message of healing, hope, and transformation to people around the world.

Today, I’m determined to educate those who are suffering in love and life so that they can turn their lives around to be fearless, confident, and have a positive mindset for success. And also; to learn the exact skills one needs to attract an emotionally healthy partner into their life.

You CAN have a meaningful, loving, awesome relationship! Man or woman, straight or LGBT, young or old, it doesn’t matter!

The key is to decide for yourself that you are tired of experiencing the same patterns in your life that keep you stuck and unhappy. When you do, you can commit to changing those patterns for good.

It all starts with identifying your Adverse Childhood Events and healing your Unconscious Emotional Triggers so you can stop inadvertently sabotaging your love relationships, and finally experience the intimate connection you desire and deserve.

Introducing:

From Dating to Mating:
VIP Platinum, 90-day Private Coaching Program

We start with identifying any past childhood, dating, or relationship trauma that has impacted you so that we can change the areas of your life you want improved. You’ll be able to feel like an amazing, Successful Single before you start dating! Then, you’ll be able to “Date with Confident Intention” so that you can to attract an emotionally healthy partner into your life.

I’ll carefully customize your experience to give you everything you need to identify and release any and all traumas you’ve experienced in your life. When you do, you’ll become more in touch with your emotions, letting go of your negative mindset, emotions and traumatic responses with ease. You’ll learn how to go from unconscious fear-based thoughts, to a positive, blissful and peaceful way of being.

Moreover, you’ll reconnect with yourself, becoming clear on exactly who you are and what you want from a love relationship, so you can attract your perfect partner, and go from single to committed (without repeating mistakes from the past!).

Here are the transformational experiences you can come to expect during the VIP Platinum Private 90-Day Coaching Program – as we work together:

  • You will break free, once and for all, from a toxic partner who is breaking your heart so that you’re no longer carrying that negative, angry energy into your future relationships.
  • You’ll stop attracting dysfunctional personality types that make you crazy so that you can have the emotionally healthy, conscious partner you deserve!
  • We’ll identify (and release!) the negative thoughts and behavior patterns that are sabotaging your relationships so that you’re never choosing partners on just “chemistry” again!
  • You’ll emotionally heal from past or current heartache by adapting a positive mind-set and confident attitude – and this impacts all your relationships so you’re a happier, more successful person.

And through our work together, you’ll know how to bring out the best parts of yourself to become the successful, confident single person you truly are – and then be your authentic self while dating!

Beyond all the juicy changes that impact your dating success, our work together will also have these transformations in your life, career, and friendships:

  • Improve all your life areas for more personal confidence and happiness so that you can craft the life you’ve always wanted (but maybe thought you didn’t deserve!)
  • Raise your personal self-esteem and confidence so you have more fun while engaging in any type of activity – romantic or otherwise!
  • Be able to clearly, calmly and empathetically articulate your needs, requirements, and desires – from a place of authentic self-love

And learn these extremely practical skills and tools so you go from dating to mating!

  • How to write an online profile that will get you the dates you desire
  • Know the specific questions to ask while dating to discover any red flags
  • Know the essential character traits mandatory in an emotionally healthy, conscious partner    ….And so much more!

I’ll also show you how to use the “Law of Attraction” to call-in your perfect, life-long dream partner!  

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Erin L. - (30s)

Coaching with Riana led me to gain my confidence back, getting to a point of happiness and self-worth again. With her Program, it was an eye-opener and I was lucky to escape the biggest mistake of my life - that of a marriage to the wrong person. I am now in the most fantastic, healthiest relationship of my life, and have a beautiful baby boy! I cannot thank Riana enough for being such an amazing coach, person and mentor. She’s an amazing woman and an inspiration! I encourage anyone who is in need of help with themselves, or a relationship, to give her program a try - and you won't be sorry! Thank you so much Riana!

Plus, When You Enroll Today, You Get these Amazing Bonuses Worth Over $5000!

BONUS #1

Email Support from Riana (Pay in Full Plan Only)

You’ll have me six days a week (Monday – Saturday) available via email to answer any of your dating or relationship questions, as they occur; giving you incredible support the day you need it! No other dating or relationship coach does that.)

(Value $3500)

BONUS #2

7 Signs Your Date's a Keeper!
Questions to ask on your First Date

You want to have an emotionally healthy, evolved relationship – which means you don’t want to waste your time dating a dud! These 10  essential questions aren’t “ice breakers” – they’re designed to help you know if the date in front of you is emotionally healthy and a great partner, as well as if their core values are aligned to yours – from Date 1 – so you know immediately if this date is “a one and done” or if you see the 7 Signs to feel confident to move on to a second date.

(Value $500)

BONUS #3

Private VIP “Dating to Mating”
Facebook Group

While you’re in the course, you’ll have access to the Facebook group to interact with other people, share successes, get new, cutting edge information that comes from me in summits, podcasts, or informative articles, and ask questions! Imagine having a group of like-hearted people who are dedicated to releasing childhood traumas, being their best selves, and finding the love they want and deserve!

(Value $1,000)

In Short, You’ll Have Everything You Need to FREE Yourself from the Traumas That Have Impacted You Your Entire Life, So You Can Finally Live a Joyful, Love-Filled Life, alongside Your Perfect-for-You Partner!

Right now, you might be thinking, “This sounds great, Riana! How does the Platinum, VIP Private 90-day Program work?”

Great question!

When you enroll in VIP Platinum Life & Love Transformation Program for Singles you'll receive:

  • Initial History Assessment: for deep insight into your childhood history and triggers
  • Nine, 1-Hour Private 1-on-1 Skype Coaching Sessions (3 per month for 3-months)
  • Online Dating to Mating Education Platform for all learning materials, videos, audios, PowerPoints, assessments, etc.
  • Online Life/Love Transformation Workbook for Singles – time-tested, insightful educational exercises for change
  • Both of Riana’s 5 Star books (online download), LIVE and LOVE Beyond Your Dreams
  • Singles online profile written along with you – advice on creating a well-crafted online profile
  • Additional relationship resources – including telesummits, podcasts with various experts, articles, and more. It’s all great information you need to know!
  • Private FB Group for all Coaching members in the VIP Programs

During our coaching, you’ll receive worksheets for you to complete and mail back to me. (Yes, you really need to do them to get the transformation you want!) If you don’t do the assignments, you won’t get results. All the education is meant to go together so that you receive the ultimate transformation you are looking for.

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R. in Lebanon - (34)

I was looking for answers I couldn't find, and Riana’s sessions and workbook lessons were structured and scientific, it's not the usual coaching sessions like the ones I experienced before where I was talking randomly about any topic which used to get me stuck for months without any result. Riana helped me a lot in understanding some topics deeper, working on getting over my past relationships and widening my horizons into new relationships and not fall into my usual toxic patterns again. Riana is at the same time supportive and kind, and yet, directive, and firm – to produce the results I wanted and needed.

By now, you may be asking yourself, “Riana, I can’t wait to transform my life from the ground up—including Beginning with releasing my Childhood Traumas—so I can find my perfect mate! What is the investment?”

Great question.

Let me ask you this:

Which is a greater investment—money, or time?

You can’t get time back.

And how much time have you spent being lonely? Feeling unloved? Or in relationships that you knew were wrong for you? How many times have you repeated getting into toxic, painful relationships, just to NOT be alone?

I’ll bet you can measure that in years, not months. And I can also bet it cost you a lot financially too (almost ALL toxic relationships do!)

If you’re finally ready—ready to focus on the one thing all your relationships have in

common — YOU …

… if you’re REALLY ready to invest your time, energy, and focus on YOU …

Then the monetary investment for “Dating to Mating Platinum VIP, Private 90-Day Program for Singles” (which has a total value of over $15,000, including bonuses) is the easy part: it’s just $11,800 $9800.

Then I asked myself if there was any way I could make the investment even easier on you … which is why I’m also offering a limited-time, three-payment plan: you make a $5500 payment now, and then there are 2 more automatic payments of $2500 every 21 days.

NOW; are you ready to get started with The Platinum, Private VIP, 1-on-1 Coaching with me?  Or do you still have a few questions?

Below, I've included a few of the questions I hear most frequently, and their answers, to help you decide if VIP Coaching is a good match for you.

Q: How do I know what you teach will work for me?

A: To put it plainly, this program has worked for thousands of people of all ages, backgrounds, countries, and cultures, for over 18 years. It doesn’t matter if you’re straight or LGBT, young or old, a man or a woman; you absolutely need to heal any deep-rooted trauma before you can feel amazing, positive and confident; leading to being successful in attracting an emotionally healthy partner and maintaining a life-long relationship!

Q: How many VIP Clients do you have? Will you have time for me?

A: Yes, I’m a global, in-demand Coach, but I limit my private VIP Clients to SIX at one time. And if you’re seeing this page, then I have an opening NOW in my coaching calendar for you – for our 1-on-1 sessions AND for the email support. Openings are not always available, they are first come, first served; so you must quickly decide if you are truly ready to change your Life and find Love. This is for the elite client wanting the ultimate transformation.

Q: I’m really busy. How will I find the time to make this work?

A: Let me ask you this: is busy an excuse to forget that you’re lonely? The clock is ticking – and you won’t meet anyone if you don’t make time for it. You must make your dream for Love a Priority. As one of my exclusive, private VIP Clients, we pick times for your coaching sessions that do work for your schedule.

Q: This is an important investment. Why should I invest in this?

A: To put it plainly, this program has worked for thousands of people of all ages, backgrounds, countries, and cultures, for over 18 years. It doesn’t matter if you’re straight or LGBT, young or old, a man or a woman; you absolutely need to heal any deep-rooted trauma before you can feel amazing, positive and confident; leading to being successful in attracting an emotionally healthy partner and maintaining a life-long relationship!

Frankly … It’s Time to Have the Love You Deserve!

What better investment could you possibly make than in Yourself … and in having the life you truly desire and the love you deserve?

Many people of trauma do for everyone else, and rarely say “YES” to themselves. It’s time for you! It’s time to Love Yourself more!

And the information you learn in the course changes your life! FOREVER! Once you have these skills, you will use them for the rest of your life. Think of the value of that investment! You’ll be amazed how you’ll find yourself helping your friends, children and other family members learn the techniques that you are practicing; that will profoundly change your Life.

Like I always say:

You Can’t Change What You Don’t Understand!

If you’re like 90% of the population, events from your past have been impacting your life & love relationships over and over in ways that you don’t consciously understand. However, you know for real – that something’s “been wrong” for a long time! NOW is the time to discover and release those past unconscious emotionally triggers and traumas for good, so you can have the love and joy you want and deserve!

It all starts here!

In Light & Love,
Riana

P.S. Whether you say yes or no, I really encourage you to MAKE A DECISION about it before you jump off this page – Get the Fast Action Scholarship before it is GONE. Please don’t let this be one more thing you need to “think about.”

Don’t stay stuck and frustrated by delaying this decision. So, will you say - YES – to helping yourself? Are you truly ready to finally ready to feel happy and have love in your life?

Trust the answer that comes and move forward! Say YES to the Life & Love You Deserve!

Let’s Do this!

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Lisa S. - (50's)

Eighteen months ago, I was struggling, lost and helpless. Riana's supportive Coaching techniques led me to find myself and to make positive lifestyle changes after a difficult time in my life following a divorce. Because of her incredible insight into life issues and her ability to express direction in her coaching program, I gained the strength I needed to move forward and feel amazing! Today....I am stronger, happier and love myself more than I ever have. I would highly recommend her Coaching program...I am now in a wonderful, emotionally healthy & evolved relationship - and knew EXACTLY what to do to attract this type of love into my life. With Thanks and Love, Lisa

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Scott T. - (40's)

Riana came into my life after I was cast on the Radical Dating – Finding Lasting Love Over 40 Reality show, and I was introduced to my Life & Relationship Coach; Riana Milne. I wasn’t sure what to expect and truth be told, I didn’t think I needed a Coach; thinking I was doing just fine on my own. Well let me tell you how wrong I was. After three months of filming, I am a different person than I was when I started the show. I owe my positive changes to Riana.
Small back story…I am a gay man in my 40’s. I was in a relationship for over 6 years and then my partner passed away suddenly in an accident. That was 6 years ago. I have dated one person (3 months) in the last 6 years and that did not turn end very well. Suffice it to say, I had a few issues that I needed to deal with if I was ever going to be able to have a healthy long-lasting relationship with anyone. I had a fear of abandonment (childhood issues), did not trust, made humor a mechanism of dealing with any issue, was a negative person, was not happy and the list goes on. I needed not only a personality adjustment, but I needed a wakeup call.
Through this “Radical Dating” program and with the help of Riana, I overcame all my obstacles. Riana is the most wonderful coach anyone could ever have in their life. She opened my eyes to a lot of things. She made me aware of issues I needed to overcome, brought more spirituality into my life and brought me to a place where I am truly happy with myself and my life. She provides a wealth of encouragement, motivation and strength.
I will say this in conclusion…No one, and I mean NO ONE, can help you if you are not willing to help yourself. But if you are willing to help yourself and get over those obstacles, then Riana is exactly who you need to “be in your corner”. She will pick you up, dust you off and help push you in the direction you need to go. I will say that if it was not for Riana, I would still just be going through the motions in this life of mine. She helped me realize I have a purpose and a strength that I did not even know I had.
Thank you, Riana for everything you have done for me! I love and adore you and I am glad to know that you are always a phone call away!