posted on September 25, 2015

The 6-word Lesson

This 6-word Lesson could Completely Change Your Life…

How do I know? Because this 6-word lesson forever changed mine.

Let’s start with a story from before I became a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Relationship, Love & Life coach…

My heart was racing.

I was at Penn State University and it was the first time I met who would become my future husband.

He was a handsome, fun, a great dancer and super smart – and we fell in love. There was GREAT chemistry and we built this dream of a wonderful future together.

We wanted the warmth of a family. The coziness of a home. And the unwavering support and dedication from a loving partner. I was 21 when I married.

But unfortunately this story isn’t a gooey romance with a happy ending.

Fast forward 3 years. We’ve been married over 2 years and I was pregnant with my first child.

And here I am again…

My heart was racing.

This time for a different reason. Actually 185,000 reasons.

My husband and his father took a loan from my mother for $185,000 for a Greek restaurant. This was supposed to be a “temporary arrangement.” As you can imagine, this created a lot tension in my family. I was a nervous wreck something could go wrong – but I trusted them and their word.

And long story short, nothing was paid back.

Not only was I $185,000 in debt to my mother, but I got nothing for it, and owned no part of the restaurant as promised. We soon left town to try to make our way back in my home town near Philadelphia; and entered into the Chocolate business. Daughter number two was born; and still, none of the big loan was paid back.

My husband’s business decisions in the candy business – of quick expansion, and taking on two partners I didn’t agree to – added up to over $750,000, 00. His choices – put us into more debt, leading me to file for bankruptcy with two daughters who were only 2 and 3 years old. And still….I owed my mom $185,000.

I was done. I filed for divorced. I was exhausted and felt 70 when I was only 26. My girls and I moved out of the family home with only my first month’s rent for an apartment and office; and I had no ability to get a loan.

WIth no money, a lot of prayers, and a dream – I opened my Model & Talent School and Agency in Erie PA..

I was in a deep hole and I was gasping for air, hoping to find a way out.

Struggling my way through each day. But I had faith…and believed in my Dreams.

Each inch of progress felt like running a marathon through quicksand.

Have you ever felt like that? So over burdened and wanting to believe in your Dreams – but kept getting brought down by others?

But I found my way out…People couldn’t understand how I could carry such a burden, work so many hours, raise amazing kids, and still have that big smile on my face; and a ton of energy for life.

What was my secret? How did I do it all alone?

I found my way out of the hole, and the darkness….it came in the form of 6 words.

There are no _ _ _ _ _ _ _ , only _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _.

These 6 words produced a subtle yet profound shift in me. It gave me my power back.

When you make this shift, it’s the key ingredient that will change everything for you. If you’re feeling stuck in life.

Stuck in a…

-A dead-end, going nowhere, dating life – and you dream of a loving, committed relationship

-A slow-motion career path, or a job you dread going to every day..

-A toxic, dysfunctional, love-less, or painful relationship – and no matter what you do, your partner is disrespectful, moody, angry, controlling, addicted, or just plain miserable?

Whatever it is that has stripped you of your mojo, energy, sense of self – and confidence.

This is the lesson you need to pay attention to…

Because this is the shift that allowed me to spring out of my $185,000 in debt and start that Model and Talent School (that within a year won The International Model & Talent Award – and placed my talent in top companies about the world) all while raising my 2 young daughters.

It worked for me. And it’s worked for me every time life hands me a struggle or difficult transition. 

Here’s the lesson:

There are no victims, only volunteers.

Kind of harsh to hear? I know.

Read it again:

There are NO victims, ONLY volunteers.

To be perfectly clear, I’m not saying bad things don’t happen to good people. They obviously do.

But bad things don’t have to stay bad things.

We can so easily lose our power to our victimhood, if we take the self-pity, poor me attitude and get lost in a negative mind-set..

But you don’t have to be handcuffed to your circumstances.

You have choices.
You have options.
You can make a HUGE impact on the conditions of your life.

I know because I’ve been through it. And I’ve helped others through it as well. It has become my passion to help others through it – a tough life situation, a difficult transition, finding a sense of purpose, and breaking free of a Toxic Love to regain your self-esteem – to finding the Love you Deserve – and never settling for anything less.

Because life is too short to be unhappy!

Just look at what some of my past clients have said…

“Riana is a truly genuine soul who has taught me to see life in a new light. I have learned a new appreciation for not only what I have, but also the wonderful possibilities that lie ahead! Riana has many gifts, but her passion of helping people has touched me personally and changed my life forever.”

“When I called Riana she took the time to listen and get to the heart of the matter on our very first call. At the time, that helped like you wouldn’t believe. Everyone needs support at some time. Her compassion came right through. Her methods of coaching work!”

“Riana Milne came into my life and right away I knew she was meant to be there. Eighteen months ago I was struggling, lost and helpless. Today….I am stronger, happier and love myself more than I ever have. It has been an incredible journey!”

If you’re ready to get different results for your life, I’m putting together something special.

It’s a transformative experience designed for those who are ready to take the leap out of struggle and into a lifestyle of confidence, success, and ease.

Your dream life with your dream partner is within your grasp. It’s easy when you know EXACTLY what to do to attract that partner into your life.

If you’re ready to take charge of your life again, I want you to email me at RianaMilne@gmail.com and say “I’m ready.”

I’ll follow-up with more details.

It doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship. Starting a new job or stuck in one for years.

This is your chance to make a change within ALL areas of your Life – with the expert guidance of a certified professional who has LIVED IT.

You don’t have to be stuck anymore. It’s time to choose out of your victimhood and into a life you absolutely LOVE. What are you waiting for?

If you were looking for a sign, THIS is it.

Are you ready?

Email me – and let me know – RianaMilne@gmail.com.

Just say – “RIANA, I’m Ready!”

In love and light,


 Riana Mine, MA, is a Certified, Global Relationship, Love & Life Coach, #1 Best Selling Author, educational speaker, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Cert. Trauma & Addictions Professional at Therapy by the Sea; 15300 Jog Rd, Suite 109, Delray Beach. Her free App: My Relationship Coach offers more articles and her books, LIVE Beyond Your Dreamsfrom Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose, and Success, and #1 Best Seller, LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve addresses relationships with yourself and others. To learn more about Riana’s Life or Love Coaching programs or suggest a topic, go to Riana’s website, www.RianaMilne.com or email RianaMilne@gmail.com. For information on Virtual Group Coaching for Singles & Couples, go to Support@LifeandLoveTrainingAcademy.com Worldwide Coaching Phone: (201) 281-7887. Delray Beach, FL office: (561) 701-8277; Skype Coaching and FB: coachrianamilne.  #LoveCoach,   #LifeCoach, #RelationshipCoach,  #SinglesCoach #Terriana Milne



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